10 ways to build positive parent-teacher relationships in primary schools

Author: Teachit's editorial team
Published: 10/09/2024

Parent talking to teacher with children in the classroom

As we embark on a new school year, primary teachers must lay the foundation for building strong, positive relationships with parents and carers. Creating these connections early on can set the tone for a year of collaboration and mutual support, ultimately benefiting the children in our care. Here are ten simple yet effective strategies to kickstart positive parent-teacher relationships as you welcome families back to school.

  1. Send a warm welcome letter. Before the term begins, post a personalised letter to each family introducing yourself, sharing your teaching philosophy, and expressing enthusiasm for the year ahead. Include a photo of yourself to help parents put a face to your name.
  2. Host an informal 'Meet and Greet'. Organise a relaxed event in the first week where parents can drop in, perhaps over tea and biscuits, to chat informally. This can be particularly reassuring for parents of children new to the school.
  3. Create a class newsletter. Develop a simple, visually appealing newsletter outlining key information for the term, including topics to be covered, important dates, and ways parents can get involved. Consider including a 'Meet the Team' section featuring all staff who will work with the class.
  4. Establish a 'Good News' communication system. Implement a quick and easy way to share positive news about children with their parents, such as 'Praise Postcards' or a dedicated good news email each Friday. Aim to contact each family with positive feedback within the first few weeks.
  5. Set up a class blog or social media account. With school approval, create a class blog or social media account to share updates and photos of classroom activities, and celebrate achievements. Ensure you follow school policies on digital safeguarding and obtain necessary permissions.
  6. Offer flexible meeting times. When scheduling initial parent-teacher meetings, provide a range of time slots, including early mornings and evenings, to accommodate working parents. Consider offering virtual meeting options for those who struggle to attend in person.
  7. Create a 'Family Connections' display. Invite families to contribute photos or small items representing their home life or cultural background to a classroom display. This celebrates diversity and helps children feel their whole identity is valued at school.
  8. Implement a 'Parent Expert' programme. Invite parents to share their skills or knowledge related to curriculum topics. This could be through classroom visits, video messages, or providing resources, valuing parental input from the outset.
  9. Establish clear communication preferences. Send out a quick survey asking parents about their preferred methods of communication (e.g., email, text, phone calls) and the best times to reach them. This demonstrates respect for their time and circumstances.
  10. Plan an early 'Curriculum Evening'. Host an informative yet engaging session explaining your approach to key subjects like maths and literacy. Provide practical tips for supporting learning at home and allow time for questions and discussions.

By implementing these strategies, you'll be well on your way to fostering positive, collaborative relationships with parents and carers. Remember, every interaction is an opportunity to build trust and rapport. As you navigate the busy start of the school year, keep in mind that these early efforts to connect with families can pay dividends throughout the academic year and beyond.

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